Hi Matt,I am just guessing here, but Zack and Manuel both mention installing XQuartz, whereas you mention installing xorg-server. While Demeter should work with either, perhaps on the new OS there is a problem installing Demeter with xorg-server and one has to go with xQuartz.
Have you tried installing xQuartz or following Zack's instructions exactly?
That is installing xQuartz and not installing xorg-server at all?